I'm back to post again, after viewing a friend's blog. I feel terribly sorry and I felt sad for her. I'm sorry I couldn't help, like cheer her up or get her onto her feet now. I know she will soon, one day. And that's not far. It's really sad after viewing her entry. Guys like that are loathsome, they seriously sucks. It's not the females' fault that we are so gullible and emotional. We tend to give in to the guys and compromise so much, we care even to the slightest details about anything like when we go on a date, what are we going to wear, which accessories to put on so that maybe we can captivate the partner's attention and not spot him checking out a random chick or what-so-ever.
Love don't sucks girl, you don't too. It's sucks when you stumbled onto the wrong one. Love is truly there when he is Mr Right, The One. After some experiences in Life and gossips and everything. I realize that girls are always on the losing end, be it emotionally or physically. But sometimes after a relationship ends or it's over, lets just get a grip and cherish those dignity we still have left. Love ourselves for who we are and what we look like, lets not say about changing for your other half. And I thought loving someone means to love him/her for her/his everything. We will have to learn to communicate, give in, and trust, love his strengths. Tell him about his weaknesses, talk together. Communication and trust are indeed the keys to a relationship, that is if you want to last.
I used to be a girl with no dignity, seriously. Fell in love with this guy, obsessed over him and he was my world. Cried a lot, and I'm too naive and foolish. Despite getting hurt so much by the same guy, we got back a lot of times only to have the same endings. My close friends, girlfriends would be very worried about me 'cause I'm really like very emotional and everything. Maybe he cheated one me and two-time and anything, I'm still that young little girl. I think at times, lets not follow our hearts. After a First Love, we had already got over the feeling of being out of love. We know that time heals our wounds, it's just a period of time. Follow our mind, sometimes some guys are just not worth us taking a second look at. He will probably regret one day about not cherishing us when we love them wholeheartedly. My girlfriend also had problems recently, and we talked only about a little bit. I hope my words can help her though. Girls, lets cheer up! Life is really beautiful. It's not only about Love. Friendship, family?
I gonna come back to this post when I'm out of love, again.
Saturday, April 19, 2008:12:53
